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Karyn Folan December 22, 2009 at 9:32 am

Hi Kaneisha! Thanks for tackling this one! As you’ve pointed out, there are many “notions” that keep black women focused on finding a “black man” rather than simply finding a “good man”. In fact, I’ve written a book about them, called “Don’t Bring Home A White Boy and Other Notions That Keep Black Women from Dating Out” that will be available early next year. Here’s the book trailer : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EtQPFVFUezI The fact is that black women are in “market failure” on the relationship front. We outnumber black men by substantial margins when you adjust for age and income (in some cities, experts estimate the ration to be 6:1. When something is too plentiful, it’s usually undervalued…unless a new market is found. Expanding our willingness to date interracially is the equivalent to opening a new market, so to speak! But for some women, there’s some mental “dismantling” that has to happen first– and it’s the same ideas you’ve listed in your top 20 reasons that have to be addressed– along with the fear of “bashing the black man.” Good post– I’m a new fan!


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